yeah but, is there honestly any point? if he doesn't want to be helped out, just move on, that's my approach anyway, but i can sorta feel some kind of tension, like these replies weren't truly kind, i don't know, it's just a vibe i got, but the conversation came off as fairly agressive to me
no need to waste your time and your nerves, and you can always focus on helping people out who you feel deserve to be helped, i think that's more important overall, i just try to avoid conflict generally, and to me everything just sorta looks like it got derailed for no real reason
i don't know, the whole conversation just seemed kinda pointless to me, you know? anyway i'll move on as i don't really want to add more to this, sorry lol