Some games are easy, some hard. Different people find them different than others. (what's easy for one is hard for the other and vice versa)
FO4 was really easy for a lot of people because they came from that same style of Fallout or Skyrim type game, (typically New Vegas) and got the addition of even better FPS controls in FO4 making it easier for people to play without VATS.
Don't worry about it, and enjoy playing what you enjoy playing. :)
PS: Did you delete the other thread?