Vent

[Heliocentrical]

To be fair, having porn and cheating are 2 entirely different things and I wouldn't end my relationship over it unless I found out my SO was rubbing one out to something highly illegal or morally questionable

Likewise, as the submissive and subservient person I am, I'd be shocked and just a little upset, to say the least, if I found out my SO was cheating.

But if he's as stupid as your story suggests though I wouldn't have even given the relationship a chance, and something about the whole situation tells me porn wasn't the reason why she left him.

That's kind of the impression I'm under as well. Back when I was working on his PC for him Jason's porn collecting habits were rather obsessive and consistent. From the outset the staggering amount of porn on his PC made him look like an abusive addict. Not to mention I had a timeline from when the porn downloading started and when it ended. Most of his porn sessions were 8 hours straight from midnight to early morning. I don't know how most men handle their porn habits but Jason's case was a particularly terrifying sight to behold due it's sheer enormous scale and size. Certainly scared me away from the stuff after seeing what it can do to a person(well rather what Jason was doing to himself but I digress). So it wouldn't surprise me if his habit evolved into something questionable and I just wasn't told. All I've got to go by is that I got a call from Miranda crying about the porn she had found, with what little context I had I tried to help mend their relationship and then it was over just like that. There might be more to it or not, I just don't know.

 

Part of me wonders if I should've said something to try and get Jason help back when this whole thing started. Obviously there's that whole violation of privacy I mentioned earlier. But after seeing the destruction in action I can't help but wonder if I made the right choice to let this instance take it's course.

[TheTron852]

Russian Mail Service is very-very great!

HAHAHAHANO, IT ISN'T.

The waiting line was a complete mess. It was huge, over 10 people waited for their turn. And from time to time some of those people left, and it's very difficult to keep track

And in the end: it was all a waste of time, and no packages were received. It was great! noitwasnot

Just why they can't implement the ticket system? Banks have those! Why mail service doesn't?

[Vapymid]

Did it so he wouldn't get so upset over the fact that I didn't love him anymore, cause I feel like that's worse.

 

Ah, the thing is - quite a lot of men would just not stop unless they are told in no uncertain terms that all is over because the woman does not love him anymore/ever. They would cling to some hope and keep pestering the lady...

 

But being told that they are not loved gives some sense of closure for that chapter of the relationship. Especially if it's delivered to them in the proverbial "it's not you - it's me" form

 

What would really hurt 100% of men, though - is telling them that they are lacking in the ah... bedroom department

 

after seeing what it can do to a person

My firm opinion which is borne out by my own life experience is that porn can't do anything to a person. However, if that person has other mental or emotional problems - the obsession with porn or with certain types of it would be a symptom of that other problem.

 

Just why they can't implement the ticket system? Banks have those! Why mail service doesn't?

Oh, hehe... I suppose the lack of competition is what does it... And in absence of the competition - the lack of any other incentive or punishment...

Кто стучится в дверь ко мне с толстой сумкой на ремне... - no longer like this, eh?

 

Regards

[Heliocentrical]

My firm opinion which is borne out by my own life experience is that porn can't do anything to a person. However, if that person has other mental or emotional problems - the obsession with porn or with certain types of it would be a symptom of that other problem.

Yes, but taking a normal activity to an extreme is inherently repulsive and traumatic. Having been exposed to Jason's extreme porn collection for months on end, understanding the colossal sense of scale, scope and time behind all of it has mortified me to a point where I can't tolerate porn even though it's perfectly normal. Well thanks to Jason in this regard I'm not normal anymore. His extremism pushed me psychologically to the other end of the spectrum to where I irrationally despise porn. It's almost like a phobia but extreme aversion instead of fear. Do I acknowledge this? yes. Do I think will ever be back to normal? Definitely not. To give you an idea of the scope for what I witnessed imagine watching the Mr. Creosote scene from Monty Python's Meaning of Life over and over for several months straight without stopping. Sure you'll be able to get over how repulsive and disgusting it is the first time but witnessing something that extremely graphic for that long is gonna make you want to swear off food entirely.

 

 

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This is slightly off topic but normally I'm a huge fan of Monty Python. But Mr. Creosote in particular struck nerve with me as it wasn't funny and unnecessarily harsh. In fact a lot of their later work just isn't very good IMO.

[Vapymid]

You know, I thought about this some more and I think I'd advise you to keep away from that guy... And tell the girl to do so as well... You never know... When someone spends so much time on an obsessive activity - they just don't have internal stops... This is the kind that might just as easily snap and go on a killing spree because his internet went out for a few minutes or because his tap dripped or for any other reason...

 

Regards

[Heliocentrical]

Miranda seems to have things under control now. Last time I heard from her she said she had had kicked Jason out of her house. She also said Jason is currently staying at some hotel and plans to move to another state. The situation appears to have been resolved and doesn't appear to be getting worse.

[Jeb_CC]

What would really hurt 100% of men, though - is telling them that they are lacking in the ah... bedroom department

I mean, he WAS lacking in the bedroom department. I would have rather fucked a chair cause then at least chairs can't stare at you. That was fucking weird. He just did NOTHING. But I wasn't gonna tell him that. XD He's a bitch so I'll let it pass over to his next girlfriend. By the way, he has ANOTHER girlfriend, already. So, he's got the chick from America who he hooked up with only a few days after we broke up. And then he has a new girlfriend - where? In Australia! Which makes me feel really creeped out but also annoyed. Like, I've never felt like somebody else's disposable toy before till now. And the chick from America I remember she said; "I'm not into polyamorous stuff" but oho, look where they are now. Geez. Guys. Why did I put up with that relationship for 3 years? *grrooooan* I'm so fucking naive.

Okay, I guess that was a vent. XD Vent over.

[Heliocentrical]

I would have rather fucked a chair cause then at least chairs can't stare at you.

What if the chair didn't have arms. What would you do then?

 

I'm so sorry(not sorry) for that awful joke.

 

OT: The wiring in my house is shitacular. I have to physically punch the lights for them to stay on for a few seconds only for the wind to knock out them out again.

[Vapymid]

I would have rather fucked a chair cause then at least chairs can't stare at you.

You should have put a pillow on his ugly mug then

 

But you know my opinion and theory about him... Grhhhh... Ah, let those other poor things handle him now... One day he will pay for all that - one way or another...

 

 

What if the chair didn't have arms.

 

Who needs arms when there is hard wood?

 

Regards

[Selfsurprise]

I went into work today after my "weekend" (I have tuesdays and wednesdays off) only to discover that none of the primitive ball-bags that I work with (across the company's hierarchy) had actually managed to rework a vast percentage of the 1000% LEGIT over-stocks from monday. Things that were the 29th of september that couldn't go onto the shopfloor on the 26th of september were still apparently sitting in the fucking chiller on their due date. Fucking abject scum. My co-workers make me grateful for things like Islamic extremism, harlequin ichthyosis and accidently stubbing one's toe on a door frame. Human beings are the reason we can't have nice things!

 

 

 

 

 

Edit: Just a friendly warning. Don't google harlequin ichthyosis if you are sensitive to images of disfiguring medical conditions. It isn't nice, trust me.

[Heliocentrical]

primitive ball-bags

That's a new one I haven't heard before Selfsurprise. I probably would've called them incompetent slobbering manbeasts but this works too. Coming up with your own insults is fun isn't it?

Edited September 30, 2016 by Guest (see edit history)

[Psychotic Ninja]

I prefer Meatbag

 

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[Selfsurprise]

That's a new one I haven't heard before Selfsurprise. I probably would've called them incompetent slobbering manbeasts but this works too. Coming up with your own insults is fun isn't it?

I'm sorry about that post. I needed to vomit forth my utter contempt for my work colleagues and I might of come across as a total edgelord. It has to happen sometimes... ;3

 

I prefer Meatbag

You say potato, I say potatarmatermorts!

[Heliocentrical]

I might of come across as a total edgelord.

As do I sometimes, in fact most of the time I'm a complete unapologetic edgelord. Do you think both of us could rule over the realm of edgelordia together?

 

SelfSurprise, would you like to go on a conquest of unending agony and atrocity with me?

[AphoticScourge]

I might of come across as a total edgelord.

As do I sometimes, in fact most of the time I'm a complete unapologetic edgelord. Do you think both of us could rule over the realm of edgelordia together?

 

SelfSurprise, would you like to go on a conquest of unending agony and atrocity with me?

Was that a marriage proposal?

[Psychotic Ninja]

Sounded like it

[Selfsurprise]

What a wild night in Vegas that was! I'm not sure if Helio remembered any of it, but frankly if he did, he wasn't there.

 

Matrimonial Kings of The Edgelordian Empire.

[Blightmare]

Idiots online when you call them idiots: "Well fight me irl and we'll see who's the real idiot."

 

I mean, probably still them. No amount of arm strength is gonna save a failing brain.

 

Honestly there's a reason so few people actually respond to these idiots is because anyone with half a brain recognizes those as the tough guy way of saying "I have no intellectual platform to stand on so I'm gonna assert my dominance by claiming to win in an irrelevant scenario" Like if I was losing an argument this would be the same as saying "fight me in Overwatch" Because if they don't play overwatch then I'm probably gonna win but that still doesn't mean I won the argument.

 

The whole thing is just depressingly stupid.

 

Edit: Apparently the Anti-Defamation League just listed Pepe the Frog as a symbol of hate speech completely destroying their credibility as a legitimate and intelligent business/organization. This is the dumbest thing I've heard in a long time. What an absolute joke.

[Selfsurprise]

"Well fight me irl and we'll see who's the real idiot."

I'd say "thanks for agreeing with me" repeatedly until they either give up or have an aneurysm. The hardest-kid-in-the-playground syndrome is both devastatingly sad and hilarious to see in action.

[Blightmare]

Some fuckboi comes into the school library, sits next to one of the few outlets this side of the building, decides instead of letting someone with a laptop sit there, he's gonna fall asleep. And he snores.

 

REALLY. FUCKING. LOUDLY.

 

I got no words for this. Who the fuck does this? There's multiple levels to this dude's inconveniencing...

 

I'm both tired and really hungry so my blood-sugar is low. This is like the worst most nerve-grating thing right now. >